Escort First Timers: How to Calm Your Nerves
Date posted: 30/06/14
A life full of first times is a life well lived. Or so the old adage goes…
You may be a man who’s fresh to the single life, or perhaps you’re looking for some extra excitement. Whatever your story may be, you’ve ended up at the conclusion that you’d like to spend time enjoying the company of a high-class escort. For many gentlemen, hiring an escort is a truly satisfying experience. First timers to the world of escorts, on the other hand, would understandably be a bit of a nervous wreck.
Naturally, you may feel burdened by the weight of expectation, some of which are valid and others that may be conjured up by your overactive imagination. However, hiring an escort needn’t be a harrowing ordeal where sweaty palms and jumbled words abound. Just follow these nerve-reducing tips to ensure you get the most out of your encounter.
We are often made to feel that sexual urges are unhealthy – that anything rather than the norm is sinning. We have also been conditioned to believe that intimacy is a dirty thing, and any indecent feelings should be suppressed. Whether it be the guilt of enjoying it or perhaps the guilt from the act itself, allowing doubtful thoughts to enter your psyche will only hinder your time spent with an escort. Consensual sex between two adults is, and will always be, a beautiful thing. It is good. It is healthy. And you should never feel ashamed.
Do Your Research
The more prepared you are, the less nervous you will be. Read up on the escort agency of your choice and the selection of women they have on their roster. Do any of them specialise in first timers? Do they have any limitations and rules? A series of dos and don’ts? Read reviews if they are available and participate in forums to get the lowdown of your particular lady. Sometimes it’s just as easy to pick up the phone, and call the agency. Don’t be afraid to express your concerns; the girls have been where you are right now and understand your anxiety.
Take Pride in Your Appearance
You don’t have to look like James Bond without a single hair out of place, but you do need to be clean and well-groomed. Many agencies stress, that while answering the door in nothing but your birthday suit is fine for permanently scarring the Foxtel sales guy, it’s poor etiquette when meeting an escort for the first time. Be freshly showered, groomed, and dressed; remember, when you look good, you feel good.
Follow the One Drink Policy
It’s only natural that you would want a drink of the alcoholic variety to calm your nerves. If you do, leave it at one drink, and one drink alone. Remember, an escort needs to feel comfortable with you too, and once she does, she may enjoy a glass – but never pressure her to do so.
And Finally, Don’t Be That Guy…
Didn’t your mother ever teach you manners? Always be kind, considerate, and respectful when meeting with an escort. You may be paying for your time, however, acting like a grade-A idiot will make her head for the door.