How to Have Hot Cybersex
Date posted: 14/01/17
The digital age is upon us. Given the internet has altered nearly every aspect of our lives, it’s not surprising that it’s also changed how we have sex. Cybersex been a thing since the internet first hit the mainstream, back in the 90s. From Skype sex to Snapchat nudes, it’s come a long way since then.
If you’ve never dabbled in cybersex before, you’re missing out. Hooking up over the internet is a great way to release sexual tension and you can do it from the comfort of your couch. Not convinced that cybersex is right for you? It’s normal to feel nervous before trying something new, and you should definitely be careful when it comes to engaging in sexual activity using the internet. Here’s how to have safe and fun cybersex:
Unless you want to wind up as an amateur porn star, be careful with who you choose to interact with. Even if you’re having cybersex with someone you trust, always take steps to protect your privacy. Keep in mind that webcams can secretly record footage, and beware of screenshots.
But a big part of what makes cybersex so great is the element of risk that’s involved. It’s almost impossible to totally safeguard yourself from revenge porn nowadays, but that shouldn’t stop you from enjoying an active sex life online. Rather than avoiding cybersex altogether, just try to use your common sense when it comes to privacy.
Having cybersex takes confidence. We know that stripping off for a webcam can feel a bit weird at first. Getting over that initial nervousness may take time, but cybersex is supposed to be fun! Worrying about what you look like or feeling dumb for talking dirty is just pointless.
Letting go of your anxieties will make your cybersex experience much more enjoyable. Having sex in the digital world is actually a great way to overcome inhibitions. The feeling of distance can help you take on a new identity, even with someone you know and trust.
Wearing clothes that you can easily strip off makes cybersex a lot easier. Guys can wear a shirt and loose jeans or short, while skirts and dresses are a great choice for ladies.
Pretty much anything goes when it comes to cybersex. Some people doll themselves up, but there’s no strict dress code. You don’t have to put a ton of effort into your appearance if you don’t want to. Simply wear what you feel comfortable in. You’re probably going to end up naked anyway so try not to worry too much about your outfit choices.
Once of the most important aspects of cybersex is deciding what works for you. Once you know what you’re into, you can go searching for it online. If the person you’re having cybersex with is doing something that doesn’t work for you, simply tell them. Not into dick picks? That’s fine. Just be clear about it.